GOSSIP IS BAD FOR SOCIETY AND CREATES VASTU DOSA: CONCEPT OF CULTURE
Gossip is
very common. In India this is also very common. Everybody is interested
to issue a simple matter by way of gossip. The situation is differ from person
to person and a person is always tried to adjust him / her with their
situation. But for other it can be a issue. The people lives in society are
always excited to create issue.
image of Anti Gossip
WHAT IS THE MEANING IS GOSSIP?
The word
gossip is very simple word but meaning is vast. For me the word gossip means “a person whisper to another person with
secretly about another people’s conduct, nature or tradition”. Gossip which
is very negative nature. The main role is taken by the women who takes part to
spread one issue all over the world. The
gossip impose the social culture impact in large basically in India and China.
Some time it put on the mind or Psychological effects in large.
WHY ONE GOSSIP AGAINST OTHER?
The
important role is taken by the women of the house. The women have no burden of
work in their daily life for which they have time to chit-chat with other women
or men. The women need to fresh their mind by way of chit-chat with other. For
chit-chat need not require any topic only need issues of someone else. It may
be family dispute or any other issue. Once they get the issue, the chit-chat
starts which is never ending and they kill their time in such manner.
RURAL AREA
Rural area is known as the 'village' in India. It has a very low
population density but due to increase of population, the rural area has
extended its shapes. In The
issues come from the neighbour house. The women do their work like cooking side
by side, bathing in one place i.e. pond / well and so on. The work of the women at Rural area have
limited work. Therefore they have sufficient time to interfere with others
issues. And those issues are spread by way of gossip / whisper. The main
purpose of gossip is to pass the leisure time.
But in
case of marriage, death, family dispute or any function have huge demand in
gossip.
During the
time of gossip, they always point out the conduct of that family. The bad
effect generated and that bad impact pressurise that family. The
group gossip of the village is create the fake news against others and whatever
discuss in the group that spread in large with fake news.
URBAN AREA
"Urban area" can refer to towns,
cities, and suburbs. In the Urban area everyone busy in their own work. Only
the work place is the suitable for gossip against the anti-party or each other.
In Urban area gossip is less then rural area and the main reason is that the no
one is ready to go someone’s house. May be they have no time, may be they are
educated, and may be they are not willing to gossip against others.
The work place is the
suitable place for the general either it is private office / company or
Government office / Company. The employees / staff’s always divided in many
group in the office and the gossip is the part of the office and for fun. Some
persons are there who have nothing to do with those gossips and only they
concentrate with their work.
GOSSIP AND ROLE OF TV
The official persons have to time to
watch TV because they always tired due to busy schedule or whole day work
presser. Only who have time and who stay in home have the time to watch TV. TV
is the only way to fresh mind who are staying in home for them. Most important
thing is that the women (for some extend) in India are stayed in home because
they are house wife and they have to manage only fair of house.
On the demand and to increase of TRP,
the TV channel are telecast the “SERIAL”. The serial is the source of gossip.
Many persons learn gossip from the TV and they are also excited to watch that
type of serial. All the serial in India is based on gossip.
PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS OR IMPACT
The gossip is not good for the
psychology. The gossip have bad impact
on mind and once you enter or start to gossip on a issue that issue and gossip
continue and it is never ending process. Gossip in work place is ok and you can
manage your office and work. But who are staying in house, if they starts
gossip on a issue that continue for a long time and the mind always run behind
to imagination and eager to express the
said imagine and how to implement the imagine.
Due to such type of eagerness, other
work have to be left and the mind become narrow and run behind such type of
imagination. Many person, who are gossiping, are interested to involve
themselves with someone else matter / issue and they become messenger of a
quarrel and mediator of a dispute.
Such type of gossip also create the
doubt over every person for which in the future life it may be the hindrance
for the growth of family. Only healthy atmosphere helps to grow and also helps
in the field of happy life.
VASTU SHASTRA
Gossip is not good for house always as mind. If someone engage himself to
think and create issues then for him have to time to think about himself.
Gossip is the matter is “VASTU DOSA”. You have no time for your family, you
have no time for your own work, your mind always run behind imagination, your
mind eager to gossip for which without any reason you create such type of
atmosphere in your house. Such type of activity is the reason for downfall of
someone’s family.
If you have to time for your family and if you give importance in gossip,
there is automatically created the problem in own house.
CONCLUSION
In may place seen that the gossip is the main reason for social
disturbance. Due to enlargement of education, everyone is educated but some
educated person gives the bad comment about the either own culture or some
other culture.
The educate person are have good standard of living and they are
maintaining the status and reputation but they do not know about the own
culture, tradition. They involve themselves only to comment some others where
as they do not see themselves. For such type of person try to modify their
tradition and what every they are doing that are as per the culture and
tradition.
