CulTure TraVel

STATUS OF WOMAN IN RAMAYAN AS PER HINDU CULTURE

 




In Anand Neelakantan’s Asura: Tale of the Vanquished Sita is said to be Ravana’s daughter, whom he ‘rescues’ from a ‘vagabond, forest-dwelling’ husband. His unconditional acceptance of Mandodari even after she is molested by the monkey goons is in direct contrast to Rama’s acceptance of the agni pariksha to test Sita’s ‘purity’.

 

 

The women characters in Indian mythology have traits that  surprise us at times and at other times appear inexplicable. The fact is that that these characters were curated and edited to suit the needs of a patriarchal society. While Sita has been hailed for her sacrificing nature, Draupadi has been known for her sharp oratory and comments and has been branded as being the centrifugal force that caused the Mahabharata. The epics have survived several revisions that ride high on opinions. Hindu religion through its mythology and epics, continues to keep the women at a subject level.

 

The modern day readers of Valmiki’s Ramayana would term it the most anti-feminist piece of work in the world’s history. Although people now would think it is unethical to bring out the follies in the epic which is kept on a very high pedestal by the followers of Hinduism, they wouldn’t disagree with its misogynistic angles either. Women in the Ramayana are represented as an substandard race, a symbol of incompetence and a mere object whose existence is not worth a tuppence.

 

Some writers try to imagine Ahalya's life after the curse and salvation, a conclusion which remains undisclosed in the ancient scriptures. Pudhumaipithan's Tamil story Sapavimocanam (1943, "Deliverance from the Curse") and K. B. Sreedevi's Malayalam language work translated as "Woman of Stone" focus on Rama's "double standard" from a feminist perspective. They ask why Rama frees Ahalya from being cursed for adultery, but punishes his wife Sita over false accusations of adultery with her kidnapper, Ravana. In Pudhumaipithan's tale, Ahalya turns back into stone after hearing that Sita had to undergo a trial by fire to prove her purity. Sita was banished from the kingdom on charges of adultery even after proving her chastity through the trial. Pudhumaipithan also narrates how, after the redemption, Ahalya suffers from "post-trauma repetition syndrome", repeatedly re-experiencing Indra's seduction and Gautama's fury, as well as suffering the anger of a traditional society that rejects her. Gautama also suffers from self-recrimination at his hasty decision to curse Ahalya.

It is sad that a woman is overestimated and treated respectfully only when she surrenders her dignity and mind. The historical period boom with the chants of holy Sita, who is worshipped for her conquered,  obedient and submissive role and not because of her willed, strong personality. The episode where Sita is asked to prove her purity and loyalty by Ram, through a trial by fire i.e. Agnee Pareeksha is particularly significant in contemplating the relevance of Ramayana. A woman who shows resilience and courage against an enemy, and upholds her duty in crisis, is asked to prove her purity not once but twice. The lack of apathy towards Sita who had undergone countless ordeals and hardships is appalling.

 

Ahalya, Tara, Mandodari, Sita and Draupadi have supernatural births, while Kunti is adopted at birth and separated from her mother. Though all of the kanyas are described as mothers, except Kunti, no kanyas' motherhood is emphasized in their story. Another common element is the theme of loss in their legends. Ahilya is cursed and neglected by her family. Tara loses her husband, Draupadi loses her 5 sons and Mandodari loses her husband, sons and family in war. Each of them suffers a tragedy and used by men but battles on with life and society. A free-spirited Ahalya is punished for her adultery. Druapadi, who challenges and mocks even her husbands, has her dignity repeatedly violated by men. Another defining feature is all the kanyas (barring Sita who is rarely included in the list) are associated with more than one man within socially acknowledged wedlock or consensual companionship. Ahalya with Gautama and Indra; Tara with Vali and Sugriva; Mandodari with Ravana and Vibhishana; Draupadi with her five husbands and Kunti with Pandu and the three gods who fathered his sons.

 

Arshia Sattar also explores the enigma that is Rama, in Lost Loves: Exploring Rama’s suffering. She peels back the nuances of the epic, to reveal the conflict between personal sorrow and public duty in Rama’s mind, and between the self-respecting woman and loving wife in Sita’s. Showing that they were both very human, even if divine.



The portrayal of the female characters in the epic is startling as they are displayed as submissive and obedient wives, mothers and daughters. Worshipping husbands as god epitomizes unequal relationship that is overvalued and set as a precedent instead of questioning the inequality. Even Kaushalya is a strong woman who doesn’t avoid from telling off her husband.

 

Within moments of her intention in Ramayana, Surpanakha is brutally punished for her appetitive sexuality. The sexually active single woman is dangerous and here she has been successfully deactivated. Arguably, it is her actions that set the cataclysmic events of the Ramayana in motion. Thus, the consequences of Surpanakha’s behaviour extend well beyond her own safety and well-being and she becomes responsible, in a sense, for Sita’s abduction and captivity as well as for Rama’s many hardships. Eventually she is also responsible for her brother’s death.

 Thus, belonging to a race known for cruelty, selfishness and violence, these characters are shown to behave unlike their base nature, thus hinting that characters are not water tight compartments with a set of predefined virtues and vices but a middle ground with a shade of both.



At the end of the epic drama, when Rama refused to believe her chastity and asked her to take the Agni Pariksha for the second time, Sita agreed but decided to never return to Rama despite several pleas from him. These incidents suggest that Sita had a mind of her own and did what any wise woman would have done. Though there have been instances that her second Agni Pariksha was entirely removed from few scriptures to appease the patriarchal society what cannot be ignored is that she was an intelligent woman who was unafraid to stand for what was right.



The genesis is if gods treated goddesses in such a way, who are we mortal beings to talk about equality, let alone be its application. The idea inseminated throughout the epic is that gender inequality is normal and divinely ordained; it is daft to even have a thought of challenging it. Feminism, both as an ideology and movement, suffers a setback, owing to this genesis, as it is compelled to start its battle on uprooting patriarchy from square one.